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Do we need Drama to make a relationship work?

Watched Ghost on 5 just now. Not the whole show though. Just drips and drabs of it. Came home late after having dinner and some impromtu shopping with R4, Avia and Bb Rayner.

When i saw the part when patrick swayze told demi moore about he would give anything to be able to hold her again thru Whoopi goldberg, i nearly teared.
Shows like this always make me have that Sour feeling in my heart.

That feeling is like the feeling that i felt when i am going through a break up.

Another show that makes me exprience this feeling is the City of Angels when Nicholas Cage said that he would rather have a day to hold, touch, feel her(meg ryan) then eternity without.

Though these are only shows but i can feel that the love they had for each other is so real, so intense.

Sometimes i feel that in a city as cynical as ours, will i ever exprience it . Not really personally but also through expriences of people close to me or around me.

Nowadays all i hear from friends around me are things like break ups, scandals, one night stands, no strings attached, psycho stalking and the list can go on and on and on.

One guy could be married but still having scandals with girls he met through clubbing, and he still whines that his wife is suspicious of him whenever he go clubbing.
Another married one could be going to geylang and i can assure you that he is not going there for the food.

In a city like ours, with infinite possibilities, has monogramy become too much to expect?

Another girl friend of mine could really give up everything she has for this guy when he is still pinning for his ex. Sometimes i wonder, how can she get to the future if the past is still present?

Another close girlfriend of mine is being controlled by someone obviously wrong for her through his mind games, in other words, stringing her along like a puppet.
But she still hopes for him, hoping that he'll change and they can be happy again. Afterall, they had happier times.

Is hope a drug that she need to go off of, or is it keeping her alive?

I guess these are examples of Love gone wrong.

I'm sure that everything started out with love but with things like temptation, jealousy and selfishness poisoned it.

Oh well.

Who am i to judge anyway, i too have my fair share of problems when it comes to relationships.

But in the matters of love, how do you know when it's right?

Point to ponder.